SEPTEMBER 22ND | 7 PM | ONLINE

We are delighted to present a FREE webinar with Dr Gill Harvey, Optima Presents: Dr Gill Harvey
What happens when the place that promised belonging becomes the place where fear, shame and control take root?
For many people raised within fundamentalist or high-demand religious environments, the impact does not end when they leave. It can live on in the body, in relationships, in identity, in the struggle to trust, and in the quiet question: Who am I allowed to be now?
Dr Gill Harvey brings rare depth, courage and compassion to this profoundly important area of therapeutic work.
A Senior Accredited member of the BACP, experienced psychotherapist, researcher and author, Gill has spent over twenty-five years supporting individuals and couples through complex emotional and relational difficulties. She has particular expertise in working with those affected by religious and spiritual abuse, coercive control, cultic environments and traumatic experiences within high-demand groups and relationships.
Her doctoral research explored the influence of fundamentalist religious upbringing on mental health and wellbeing in adulthood, giving voice to experiences that are too often misunderstood, minimised or left unnamed. That research now forms the basis of her book, Fundamentalist Religious Childhoods and Adult Mental Health and Wellbeing, published by Palgrave Macmillan.
Gill’s work sits at the powerful intersection of attachment, identity, faith, trauma and belonging. She understands that spiritual abuse is rarely only about belief. It can shape a person’s deepest sense of safety, worth, autonomy and connection. It can affect how they experience authority, intimacy, difference, doubt and even their own inner voice.
What makes Gill’s contribution so compelling is her ability to hold complexity without collapsing into simple answers. She creates space for the pain caused by harmful religious systems while respecting the continuing importance of faith and spirituality for many people. Her approach is thoughtful, relational and deeply humane.
Alongside her psychotherapy practice, Gill holds specialist training in post-cult counselling and is continuing her development in spiritual direction. Her writing has explored identity after spiritual abuse, power and control within religious environments, ostracism, bereavement, spirituality and mental wellbeing.
This Optima Presents event offers a rare opportunity to hear from a practitioner and scholar whose work helps us make sense of what happens when attachment, authority and spirituality become entangled with fear and control.
It will be especially valuable for therapists, counsellors, supervisors, clergy, spiritual directors and anyone seeking a deeper understanding of:
- the lifelong impact of fundamentalist religious childhoods;
- the dynamics of spiritual abuse and coercive control;
- shame, belonging and identity after leaving a high-demand environment;
- the relational consequences of fear-based belief systems;
- and the possibilities for recovery, integration and reclaiming the self.
Join us for an evening that promises to be intellectually rich, emotionally resonant and deeply relevant to contemporary therapeutic practice.
This is not only a conversation about religion. It is a conversation about power, belonging, attachment, identity and the courage it takes to become fully oneself.
Don’t miss your CPD certificate and exclusive reflection pack after the live online event - just select “yes” on the sign-up form to receive yours.

Dr Gill Harvey is a UK-based psychotherapist, researcher, author and specialist in religious and spiritual abuse. A Senior Accredited member of the BACP, she has more than twenty-five years’ experience supporting individuals and couples with a wide range of emotional and relational difficulties. Gill’s particular area of expertise is the lasting impact of fundamentalist religious upbringings, high-demand groups, coercive control and spiritual abuse on adult mental health, identity and relationships. Her doctoral research explored counsellors’ experiences of growing up in fundamentalist religious environments, and this work has since been published in her book, Fundamentalist Religious Childhoods and Adult Mental Health and Wellbeing. Through her clinical work, research and writing, Gill brings a thoughtful, compassionate and deeply informed perspective to the complex relationship between faith, trauma, belonging and recovery.
Uruj Anjum is a BACP Accredited Psychotherapist, Supervisor, Trainer and former NHS Genetic Counsellor. Her work brings together attachment theory, trauma-informed practice and relational psychotherapy, with particular expertise in grief, perinatal experiences, genetic diagnoses and family relationships. She teaches on the CPCAB Level 7 Attachment-Focused Psychotherapeutic Pathway to Clinical Mastery and delivers CPD, supervision and specialist training across the UK.

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